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Encounter the Father

May 20, 2011

Well we hosted our first ever Encounter the Father retreat May 6-7 at WoMeTo in Rocks, Maryland, and we have to say it was an amazing experience for us all. We’ll post reviews and excerpts of the materials in the coming weeks, but based upon the feedback we’ve received we may have to offer this one again soon!

As always, we’re willing to take this retreat on the road for any church or Christian group that would like to participate. We’re also working on a youth version as well. Check back frequently for new developments.

New Site Coming Soon!

March 9, 2011

Hey Everyone,

As you’ve no doubt noticed, this site has been devoid of content for some time now. That’s going to be changing soon, but not only will there be new content – the whole site is going to be revised.

The new site is going to be dedicated to E3 ministries, a non-profit church consulting and spiritual development firm specializing in Spiritual Retreats, Church Assessment and Life Coaching. There will be plenty of content that you’ll find helpful in your daily lives, but the articles will be more focused than before. In broad terms, the site will be organized around a Trinitarian Spirituality: Encounter with Father; Equipped by the Son; Engaged by the Spirit. 3 E’s, hence the name, E3.

As a result of all the changes, the site may be down for a bit, but keep an eye open for its return.

Grace,

Stan

Hope

September 21, 2010
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Hope is the coin of the Christ-formed community. It makes us what we are, and it is the greatest gift we have to offer the world. Hope is the topic of the book Viral Hope by J.R. Woodward and friends. Check it out.

Faith

September 21, 2010
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Faith is trusting that God is good and seeks only good for us. Faith allows us to move when every instinct says to stay.

Love

September 21, 2010
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Love supersedes all laws and commands. It does not replace them, it redefines them, and it does so in terribly important ways.

For example, without love, honoring one’s parent may lead to the facilitation of a destructive behavior for which that parent will one day give account to God. Love does not allow for this. With love as the rule, honoring one’s parent may require the correction of a character flaw which is anything but honorable. Love doesn’t just seek to please, it seeks what is best for the other.

Love redefines all of the laws and breathes life into what otherwise brings only death.

Grace

September 21, 2010

Grace is the mortar that binds us to God and one another. The way of Jesus is the way of receiving and giving grace.

Through the administration of grace, we are built into a spiritual house which through the practice of hospitality becomes a blessing to God.

Church Building

September 15, 2010


The past couple of weeks I’ve had the pleasure of witnessing some amazing church building at Pathways. Quite a few folks pulled together on weeknights and weekends to finish the construction of our new cafe (and library). The cafe is absolutely beautiful and it has already proven an invaluable addition to the practice of hospitality in and by the Pathways Community. But as beautiful as the cafe is, it’s not the cafe that excites me so much.

Perhaps I should have said, “I’ve witnessed some amazing church growth“. You see it’s the relational connection, the excitement that comes from accomplishing a large task, and the satisfaction of creating something that truly belongs to no one, yet belongs to everyone at the same time that stirs my heart. A building is just a building, and a cafe is just a cafe, but relationships are where life occurs. Churches are not in the business of building buildings, they’re in the business of building (or more aptly, growing) relationships. And that is exactly what I’ve seen happen over the past several weeks.

The experience has left me nearly bursting with pride not at what the Pathways community can do, but with whom the Pathways community is becoming. I’ve seen real church growth, and I’m anxious to see how this little step of faithfulness will translate in to greater leaps of faith.

A Spiritual of Hope

September 14, 2010

“A life after death can only be thought of in terms of life before it, and nobody can dream of a new earth when there is no old earth to hold any promises.” – Henri Nouwen

For many people, today is so tragically flawed that tomorrow has no meaning. And when tomorrow dies, so dies hope and the ability to create a new today. Hope is rooted in the beyond – it lives in a time and space other than our own, but it invades our present and infuses it with life, possibility, beauty. But for those who cannot see beyond the tragedy of today, there can be no hope.

Bringing God’s future to bear in our present is the task of the Church. God’s future cannot be restricted to the heavenly realm. To do so robs both the future and the present of their meaning. Instead, God’s future must be fully grasped in our present, and allowed to inform, infuse and enliven our today.

The marriage of present and future seems to be most often born in the presence of poverty and affliction. As such, the American Church has much to learn from her foreign counterparts. Equally so, the white-Church in America has much to learn from our African-American Church sister. Born out of the oppression of slavery and fired in the struggle for freedom and civil rights, our African-American brothers and sister have more often found God’s future a relevant hope in their present affliction. We should listen and learn from their example. If we are humble, and willing to listen, we will hear a spiritual of hope, and we will see beauty and creativity rather than despair. We will see a people for whom God’s future is not an escapist retreat, but a creative and beautiful in-breaking of meaning that literally re-creates today. God’s future breaking into our present and creating a beautiful, hope-filled day. That is Kingdom Come, and that should be our song.

The New Face of American Evangelicalism

August 24, 2010

Here’s an interesting interview from ABC News about the New Face of American Evangelicalism. The clip is 10 minutes long and well worth the time. If you can’t manage 10 minutes, catch the last 3. Good stuff.

The Role of Faith

July 17, 2010

The fifth and sixth chapters of the Gospel of Mark contain a very interesting sequence of stories. In the first, Jesus shows himself to be a Messiah who is willing to get dirty – really dirty. Read the story yourself, but note how Jesus makes absolutely no effort to maintain the Jewish purity rituals he would have been taught as a child. Jesus lands his boat in a gentile land, and disembarks either in or very near a graveyard. Upon landing, he is immediately greeted by a naked, bleeding, demon possessed gentile who lives among the graves adjacent to a herd of pigs. For a Jew, it doesn’t get any more unclean than that! But Jesus doesn’t retreat from all that impurity – he touches and heals perhaps the most ritually unclean person he ever met.

The ritual purity theme continues through the next two stories where Jesus heals a woman with a bleeding disorder and raises a 12-year-old girl from the dead. Once again Jesus doesn’t shy away from ritual impurity. Jesus, it seems, is willing to embrace any person regardless of their filth. Jesus is never concerned about being contaminated by someone else’s sin. It would appear, in fact, that he intends to infect others with his holiness.

You can’t get away from the purity theme in Mark chapter five, but what really strikes me is the role of faith in the healing process. We all know that healing comes from God. Healing is an evidence of the Kingdom of God come. Now, this is not to say that a lack of healing is necessarily evidence of its absence – though it might be. Jesus possessed the power to heal any and all persons in need – yet he didn’t heal them all. He healed those with the faith to receive God’s power.

Jairus demonstrated great faith when he threw himself at Jesus’ feet and begged the mysterious rabbi to heal his ailing daughter. Being president of his synagogue, he was a big fish in his little pond, and seeking the help of this controversial would-be messiah put him at odds with the Pharisees, Sadducees and eventually Rome. Faith always requires risk and it always requires action. Jairus’ faith served as the conduit for God’s healing power.

Sandwiched between the two-halves of the story of Jairus and his daughter, we find the story of the woman with the bleeding disorder. Like Jairus, the woman demonstrated great faith in seeking Jesus’ healing power. Though the press of the crowd might have provided some level of anonymity, she risked swift and terrible retribution for daring to touch the garment of this wandering holy-man. In doing so, she – in her perpetually unclean condition – risked making her healer ritually (and socially) unclean as well. I suspect Jesus called her out for this very reason: not to chastise her, which he obviously did not, but to absolve her of any wrong doing if anyone would later accuse her of defiling him. Being always unclean, the woman’s condition would have been well known in her village, and by pronouncing her healed, Jesus rewards her faith with social healing as well as physical. “Your faith has healed you,” Jesus said. Her faith had healed her.

But isn’t God the one who heals? Isn’t God the one with the power to overcome physical, spiritual, emotional and social dysfunction through divine intervention? Well, yes. So, how can Jesus say, “Your faith has healed you”? Faith, it would seem is the conduit through which God’s power flows. Without God’s power, healing is impossible, but apparently, God’s power can only be accessed through faith. Think of it this way… God’s power is like electricity, and your faith is like a lamp. The lamp won’t work without electricity, but neither can electricity illuminate the room without the lamp (actually, it can, but the room will likely burn down in the process – see the OT for negative examples of this metaphor!). Both must be present and connected or the room will remain dark.

The symbiotic relationship of faith and power is important for many reasons. It explains why people of faith don’t always get what they pray for (the biblical examples of this are too numerous to mention, but if you’re inclined to blame a person’s lack of faith for God’s failure to grant a persons’ request, I give you Gethsemane). It also explains why we so seldom access God’s power. Sometimes, God doesn’t make his power available to us, and there’s nothing we can do about that. But at other times, Jesus suggests that our lack of faith is to blame. And this is the point of Mark 5 and 6. After the raising of Jairus’ daughter, Jesus returned to Nazareth where he only able to perform a few miracles because of the people’s lack of faith.

The Spirit of God comes and goes in ways we cannot fully understand or predict. We cannot make God show up and reveal his power whenever we like – despite the claims of some. What we can do, is access the power when it comes, but we can only access God’s power through faith. Faith requires risk and it requires action, but it is born in the space between what we know and what we don’t. The faith displayed in Mark chapter 5 was nurtured in the absence of opportunity. It was cultivated before Jesus showed up and made God’s power accessible. Faith precedes opportunity, or the opportunity is lost.

If we want to access God’s power, we have to cultivate faith in the absence of opportunity. We must strive to nurture trust in God’s character even when God can’t be found. We have to train in advance of the race. Do you believe God? Do you trust in his character? Do you make a point of remembering, memorializing where he has shown up in the past? Doing so will help sustain you until he shows himself again. Doing so will keep the lamp ready for when the power returns. Faith is the conduit through which God’s power flows. Keep the conduit clear and wait for the power. God will show himself (though he might do so in ways you neither want nor anticipate – see Jairus in Mark 5). Be ready. Have faith.

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